withdrawing from phone accounts in pubs

i took little bayman to his school concert tonight & his mother (who met us there) asked if she could get decembers child support early (yes she already has novembers), so i said fine we'll have to go to the pub & withdraw it out of my phone account (i know that pi55ers her off), anyway we stopped at the alma & the girl never had a clue how to do it so got the manager & because i/we had to wait (maybe 3 minutes) they gave all 3 of us a softdrink, i thought it was a wonderful gesture but not necessary & felt embarrassed when she wouldn't accept money for the drinks, so i'm giving the alma a wrap instead