I've been reading this thread with interest, as Ingle Farm is my old junior club. I also was involved in 05 in a junior coaching role.
The story of 2009 at Ingle Farm takes me back to 1996 at Hectorville when we got flogged every game. That year, we lost 39 players to clearances and reduced our stocks from 3 teams back to 2, but in essence went up a grade from A3 to P3 and faced some teams coming straight from Div 1 SAFA.
In fact, I think we got beaten by record margins, so much so that we didn't even look at the table during the year.
As much as it seems difficult, we really enjoyed the year. A few mates of mine still consider 96 the best off field season we had. We had no expectation on us and hence went out and tried to enjoy ourselves.
I remember a game against TransAdelaide Tigers and I think they scored 29 goals in the second half. Their coach and captain came into the clubrooms and gave the same type of speech that the Pulteney email/letter detailed.
We finished up 96 with such on field comradery, that we were able to recruit players because the club, despite losing heavily and dropping a grade was such an attractive proposition for others that we played in the 97 grand final - including winning 11 of our last 13 - unfortunately one of them being the GF.
To cut a long story short - this year is going to be difficult, however keep your heads high, play with great spirit and endeavour and good things will come to the club in no time.
Best of luck guys.
http://wiki.saafl.asn.au/wiki/1996#P3_Premiership_Table