My wife won't allow me to charge board, however when we need something from the supermarket (they both work at Woolies) they pay for it and don't seek reimbursement unless its something significant. They also eat out a couple of times a week (fast food, pub, footy club) so that saves us some $'s.
#1 19yo son had a full year in 2022 working full time and saved some significant $'s and has just upgraded to his 2nd car with cash, he is now at Uni but has built a good base which is pleasing. #2 is heading in the same direction and will be able to buy his first car (with some small help from us) when he turns 17 later this year.
Im ok with not charging board as long as they are saving. My wife has access to their bank accounts so can monitor it, its also eye opening checking #1's account after a night in town, a night out ain't cheap anymore
