Kerry Lucas

[Strawb]

The loss of a child brings on a grief that is so raw, you can hardly breathe. You either drown in it and live your life by it - or you take a healthier option and wear it. How people wear their grief is their own business, but I commend them for doing it for the sake of the people who love and care for them.

She will never get over it, but she will live with it.

I agree with you there MK as some of you would know or didn't know my wife and I lost our first born and it does take time we both are still not over it. We now have twin boys Xavier and Wylie and not a day goes by that we didn't wish for Cooper to be here playing or watching his two little brothers. Grief is different to everyone. How one copes with grief and how one deals with it is their own business who are we here to judge.
I went back to work 5 days after losing Cooper I didn't want to but I had to earn money to make a living and Jodie my wife had to look at an empty house that was filled with baby gear. The hardest day of my life was walking out of the Flinders Hospital with empty arms knowing that We had lost our Son. The days afterwards were a blur and so was the funeral, and you just don't know what to do. We got help and guidance its hard and if working helps put your mind at ease well it works for you.

[MagicKiwi]

Mr and Mrs Strawb.

[BenchedEagle]

Its not the fact she is getting back to work and normality, the thing that bothers me that only 3 months on she is in the line of work where she has to be out there "getting her sexy on". How could someone possibly do that sort of work so soon after her stupidity lost her their son? Maybe some more modest work would be more what she needs. She is a talented woman, i dont think she needs to go on modelling to survive. Money aint an issue in that household.

Also someone please tell me what the charity is in aid of please. I really would like to know.

[MW]

I dare say you have lost all the remaining respect, as little as it maybe, from the majority of posters in this forum for your continued attack on Kerry's character and they way she is trying to move on....It's a pity you can't do the same.

I know I know, I am a wanker etc etc so save your energy, I don't want to hear it.

[heater31]

I dare say you have lost all the remaining respect, as little as it maybe, from the majority of posters in this forum for your continued attack on Kerry's character and they way she is trying to move on....It's a pity you can't do the same.

Leave her alone FFS

She obviously needs this to help her move on and why should people question her judgement about returning to her workplace any normal person who finds themselves in this unfortunate situation would be expected to return to work when they feel ready. No matter if this takes two weeks, two months or two years.

Also someone please tell me what the charity is in aid of please. I really would like to know.

If you would like to do a google search you would find the answer. idiot

http://www.crf.org.au/news.shtml

it is not a foundation as you say, it is an appeal where the proceeds go to the Children's Research Fund run by Channel 7 where all South Australian Children can benefit including yours if necessary

[Punk Rooster]

I dare say you have lost all the remaining respect, as little as it maybe, from the majority of posters in this forum for your continued attack on Kerry's character and they way she is trying to move on....It's a pity you can't do the same.

I know I know, I am a wanker etc etc so save your energy, I don't want to hear it.

ROFLMAO!
Despite the dark tone of the topic, that part of your reply was genuinely funny!

[BenchedEagle]

I know I know, I am a wanker etc etc so save your energy, I don't want to hear it.

Thanx MW u saved me some key wear and tear. And u would be surprised by the PMs i have that support my view but dont want to express it publically. Which i respect, i got the balls to come out and express my opinion and i stand by it completly. All ive seen u do is pop around forums and take cheap shots at people when u can. Ive always considered u a pretty weak individual. Except in the AFL forum, where u can actually constuct a decent conversation.

Ive had my say, i stand by my opinion,(which is only 3 months is 2 soon to be out posing, not a personal attack on her) hope Kerry is doin the right thing thats best for herself, if its workin for her good luck to her. Its a massive guilt she will have to live with. I wouldnt want that ever to happen to me. And couldnt live with myself if it happened, thats why i took issue with this. I guess i just love my daughter so much that i wouldnt cope if anything happened to her, i couldnt see myself getting back into life at all, i would just have to end it myself i think.


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[MW]

All ive seen u do is pop around forums and take cheap shots at people when u can.

Can you please show me some examples of this?

If disagreeing with your "opinion" makes me a cheap shot well I'll gladly wear that.

[Strawb]

Here is a photo of Wylie and Xavier 2 days old the boys are now 12 weeks this Tuesday

[BenchedEagle]

Aww, cute. 3 months is a good age, start developing their personalitys.
Who wants to set up a topic to show off our kids? haha