Psyber wrote:
They just sit there until the recipient logs in next and responds to the prompt they get telling them there is one. Then I think it goes to their Inbox and a copy to your Sent box. I have one I sent nearly 12 months ago in my Outbox, as the intended recipient has apparently not returned here.
Did someone scare them off??
Yes in the past 12 hours I've learnt all about PM's
It's exaclty right than when you write it, it stays in the outbox.... once they other person has read it.... it goes into your sent box

Quite simple when you think about it... but I was certain I was doing something wrong
