Things that you don't understand

[Bully]

How Graham Cornes is only 65... i swear he looks closer to 90.... shocking head...

From the looks of things, his sons will get it too...

or he could have plastic surgery and look like a ken doll

[gossipgirl]

How Graham Cornes is only 65... i swear he looks closer to 90.... shocking head...

From the looks of things, his sons will get it too...

or he could have plastic surgery and look like a ken doll

or Paul Hogan

[Magpiespower]

Adults liking Pink's music...

[Failed Creation]

Adults liking Pink's music...

It's almost as bad as adults that like the Twilight series...

[shoe boy]

why the kardashians get so much press?? who the f--k are they?

[JK]

why the kardashians get so much press?? who the f--k are they?

Excellent question .. I'd like to know this answer too!!

[Dogwatcher]

Suicide.

[Lightning McQueen]

Suicide.

Mate, you are lucky to have a lovely family and things set in concrete for yourself. There have been dark times when I've questioned whether it's all worth it and felt like a burden on the world.
No one can see it coming in some instances.

[Johno6]

Suicide.

couple years ago a friend of mine commit suicide
it was only a week or so before his mum died of cancer.

that was a pretty rough patch.

I feel the most for his sister during that time

[Dogwatcher]

I do understand that much, LM.
I understand the drivers.
The concept of taking your own life and making that decision - that's what I'll never understand (I hope).

[HH3]

Suicide.

A lot of the time its a mental condition that people cant help which drives them to commit suicide. I know in my Dads case, it was very hard for him to overcome, and he ultimately took his own life in 2011. This was after nearly a decade of attempts to get help, and an unsuccessful suicide attempt in 2002.

He did the whole thing. Anti-depressants, an implant in his arm that did something to the chemicals in his body, even resorted to a two week stay in a private hospital to receive shock therapy.

In the end it was not enough, and he took his own life.

I dont think anyone knows what its like unless they experience it first hand.

[Johno6]

you have to be in a pretty dark place to do it knowing all the people it will effect.

[HH3]

People always say its the selfish way out, but I think of it differently. I saw my Dad struggle with his own thoughts for years while I grew up and I couldnt imagine doing it.

I think sometimes the people on the outside of the situation are kinda being selfish expecting someone to deal with something they have no idea about. I know I probably wouldnt be able to deal with what my Dad did for as long as he did.

[Lightning McQueen]

you have to be in a pretty dark place to do it knowing all the people it will effect.

******* oath mate, that's what snapped me out of it, I had lost everything I'd worked for, I'm a far stronger person for it now. I've been to hell and back in the past 12 months and just when I could see a glimmer of light I lost my dad.
I'll get better again and concentrate on what is important to me.

[Johno6]

after a rough 18-24 months with various things in my life
I try to concentrate on all the positives now.
I wanna enjoy life, not grow up a grumpy old man

[test]

you have to be in a pretty dark place to do it knowing all the people it will effect.

******* oath mate, that's what snapped me out of it, I had lost everything I'd worked for, I'm a far stronger person for it now. I've been to hell and back in the past 12 months and just when I could see a glimmer of light I lost my dad.
I'll get better again and concentrate on what is important to me.

Sounds like your on the right path LM, never forget what's important to you.

[Lightning McQueen]

you have to be in a pretty dark place to do it knowing all the people it will effect.

******* oath mate, that's what snapped me out of it, I had lost everything I'd worked for, I'm a far stronger person for it now. I've been to hell and back in the past 12 months and just when I could see a glimmer of light I lost my dad.
I'll get better again and concentrate on what is important to me.

Sounds like your on the right path LM, never forget what's important to you.

Cheers mate, there will always be bumps in the road, like Johno said, you just have to pick yourself up and be think positive thoughts. I eliminate all of the negative influences in my life.

[Brodlach]

you have to be in a pretty dark place to do it knowing all the people it will effect.

******* oath mate, that's what snapped me out of it, I had lost everything I'd worked for, I'm a far stronger person for it now. I've been to hell and back in the past 12 months and just when I could see a glimmer of light I lost my dad.
I'll get better again and concentrate on what is important to me.

This thread has made me sad


All the best to you LM, I hope things continue to improve in you life

[Johno6]

my fiancée wanted me to see a dr about getting anti depression tablets a lil while ago.
but I don't wanna touch that stuff, heard bad things about them.

glad I never did tho.

[Failed Creation]

I've made it through 2 unsuccessful attempts (one at 14; the other at 19). I believed, and still do to a certain extent, that I was insignificant and unworthy of love, respect and friendship, and growing up was the loneliest time for me. As a result, I have little to no self-esteem.

I'm not happy about the way I grew up, but I don't regret it either, as it's made me a lot more resilient than I otherwise would've been.

I know I'm one of the lucky ones.