Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2018 11:58 amDutchy wrote:How does the E/W work with that bet?
Spargo likes it both ways perhaps?
Spargo likes it both ways perhaps?
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Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2018 11:58 amSpargo likes it both ways perhaps?
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2018 12:32 pmLightning McQueen wrote:Dutchy wrote:How does the E/W work with that bet?
Spargo likes it both ways perhaps?
Doubles your chances...
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 9:07 amWell LM?
Saturday, gone, Monday?
Saturday, gone, Monday?
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 9:22 amI hope she turned up to the Christmas show
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 9:29 amCalled in sick today, wasn't there Saturday night.
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 9:37 amLightning McQueen wrote:Called in sick today, wasn't there Saturday night.
She’s the gift that keeps on giving!
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 9:54 amSpargo wrote:Lightning McQueen wrote:Called in sick today, wasn't there Saturday night.
She’s the gift that keeps on giving!
Absolutely.
It's like "***** isn't in today"
"Oh shit, that's strange, I hope she's alright"
Or "Who looks after (insert customer name), I have this order for them"
"Just leave it on *****'s desk, she can tend to it in the morning when she's back"
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 10:34 amLightning McQueen wrote:Called in sick today, wasn't there Saturday night.
Dude, surely it's time she gets the "thanks but don't come Monday" chat?!
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 10:37 amThe Bedge wrote:Lightning McQueen wrote:Called in sick today, wasn't there Saturday night.
Dude, surely it's time she gets the "thanks but don't come Monday" chat?!
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 10:57 amThe Bedge wrote:Lightning McQueen wrote:Called in sick today, wasn't there Saturday night.
Dude, surely it's time she gets the "thanks but don't come Monday" chat?!
Unfortunately in today's day and age they just can't, as long as she has doctor certificates and calls in there is nothing they can do.
Personally, I would've employed a PI a long time ago, probably after the 3rd or 4th day this time.
At a guess, she's trying to get the arse!
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 11:00 amLightning McQueen wrote:The Bedge wrote:Lightning McQueen wrote:Called in sick today, wasn't there Saturday night.
Dude, surely it's time she gets the "thanks but don't come Monday" chat?!
Unfortunately in today's day and age they just can't, as long as she has doctor certificates and calls in there is nothing they can do.
Personally, I would've employed a PI a long time ago, probably after the 3rd or 4th day this time.
At a guess, she's trying to get the arse!
They can just stop paying her if she has no sick leave left.
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 11:03 amHH3 wrote:
They can just stop paying her if she has no sick leave left.
Yeah, for sure, I'd doubt that there would be any hours left in that kitty.
We get paid monthly too so it's going to be a fair kick in the guts close to Christmas.
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 11:07 amAs I noted previously, the employer can ask for a certificate to confirm you are fit to return to work.
It's one thing getting a GP to sign you off for a day or two as unfit for work, get them to write one out to say you are fit to return. Different things.
And, in this instance, there's no doubt they can give her the arse and deal with the consequences, she'd not have a leg to stand on.
It's one thing getting a GP to sign you off for a day or two as unfit for work, get them to write one out to say you are fit to return. Different things.
And, in this instance, there's no doubt they can give her the arse and deal with the consequences, she'd not have a leg to stand on.
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 11:11 ammy girls going away to london for two weeks on wednesday...
Could chuck this into the "shit" thread...
I wanna stress i have zero issue them going, it's london... I would never stop them from going. But how my ex and her family have handled this makes me incredibly pissed off!!!!!!!!! So now instead of spending the next two with them, now they are going away even though when she booked the trip she didn't even consider the kids!!!! Now she thinks my daughter won't handle being away from their mum...
My opinion as their father literally means F*** all...
I am so angry right now!!!! Somehow i have been portrayed as the bad guy, even though i am the one has put my girls first and dealt with every anxious issue she has...
Just go on your f***** holiday... and don't even get me started on her family!! c****... i am essentially co parenting with 5 other people!!!
damned if i do and damned if i don't
Could chuck this into the "shit" thread...
I wanna stress i have zero issue them going, it's london... I would never stop them from going. But how my ex and her family have handled this makes me incredibly pissed off!!!!!!!!! So now instead of spending the next two with them, now they are going away even though when she booked the trip she didn't even consider the kids!!!! Now she thinks my daughter won't handle being away from their mum...
My opinion as their father literally means F*** all...
I am so angry right now!!!! Somehow i have been portrayed as the bad guy, even though i am the one has put my girls first and dealt with every anxious issue she has...
Just go on your f***** holiday... and don't even get me started on her family!! c****... i am essentially co parenting with 5 other people!!!
damned if i do and damned if i don't
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 11:15 amBooney wrote:As I noted previously, the employer can ask for a certificate to confirm you are fit to return to work.
It's one thing getting a GP to sign you off for a day or two as unfit for work, get them to write one out to say you are fit to return. Different things.
And, in this instance, there's no doubt they can give her the arse and deal with the consequences, she'd not have a leg to stand on.
They need to see her in person for starters, that is the first step.
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 11:17 amwoodublieve12 wrote:My opinion as their father literally means F*** all...
I am so angry right now!!!! Somehow i have been portrayed as the bad guy, even though i am the one has put my girls first and dealt with every anxious issue she has...
damned if i do and damned if i don't
I feel your pain brother, been there (still going through it), understand how frustrating it is, keep fighting the good fight - try (as hard as it is) to not buy into the bullshit from the ex and family and keep doing what you're doing, your girls will (hopefully) eventually see it all for what it is and the effort, energy and love you put into them, and ultimately that's the only thing that matters.
Get the venting out on here - if nothing else it'll make you feel better getting off your chest.
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2018 11:21 amwoodublieve12 wrote:my girls going away to london for two weeks on wednesday...
Could chuck this into the "shit" thread...
I wanna stress i have zero issue them going, it's london... I would never stop them from going. But how my ex and her family have handled this makes me incredibly pissed off!!!!!!!!! So now instead of spending the next two with them, now they are going away even though when she booked the trip she didn't even consider the kids!!!! Now she thinks my daughter won't handle being away from their mum...
My opinion as their father literally means F*** all...
I am so angry right now!!!! Somehow i have been portrayed as the bad guy, even though i am the one has put my girls first and dealt with every anxious issue she has...
Just go on your f***** holiday... and don't even get me started on her family!! c****... i am essentially co parenting with 5 other people!!!
damned if i do and damned if i don't
Let it go mate, the girls will have a once in a lifetime experience, you'll have some leisure time and life goes on.
Life is too short to be pissed off with the ex, and her family for that matter, who cares what they think of you, you'll never rank higher than their daughter in their eyes so don't even bother.
Just do what you have been doing, who cares about the accolades or what others think, worry about yourself and the girls.
I went through something very similar not so long ago and it was easier to just switch off at times and if they went away I'd use the time to catch up with friends or do things I generally was unable to do.
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2018 10:09 amHH3 wrote:
They can just stop paying her if she has no sick leave left.
Day 15, that's 21 days in real life.
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2018 10:13 amLightning McQueen wrote:HH3 wrote:
They can just stop paying her if she has no sick leave left.
Day 15, that's 21 days in real life.
Surely she's got a new job. Or she's dying.
Re: Things that make you sad.
Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2018 10:31 amOr taking the piss