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Re: I need to know....

Postby woodublieve12 » Fri Sep 14, 2018 12:00 pm

for the blokes who have gone through separation, it's been 8 months tomorrow since it's happened... Sometimes i get a little sad about it, but most of all i get angry... i don't wanna get back with her or anything (not that theirs a chance of that and at the moment thats how i feel).

Does the anger subside? - it's not all the time but alot of the time i feel angry about it... i don't take it out on anyone else, but i feel it just bubbling under the surface..
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Re: I need to know....

Postby Lightning McQueen » Fri Sep 14, 2018 12:43 pm

woodublieve12 wrote:for the blokes who have gone through separation, it's been 8 months tomorrow since it's happened... Sometimes i get a little sad about it, but most of all i get angry... i don't wanna get back with her or anything (not that theirs a chance of that and at the moment thats how i feel).

Does the anger subside? - it's not all the time but alot of the time i feel angry about it... i don't take it out on anyone else, but i feel it just bubbling under the surface..

First thing I noticed is that you mentioned "8 moths", don't think about the time etc. it only prolongs the pain.

After 13 years with my ex it ate away at me on the inside for about 4 months, then one day it just all clicked, I thought why worry about what you haven't got, worry about what you do have, you are your own destiny and the sooner you realise the word "ex", the better off you'll be.

The day I found out she was seeing someone new was a day of huge relief for me, not sure if it was because it was the same day that my dad had passed away too but it was what it was.

I don't have a lot of time for her, I don't speak ill of her around the kids but I have no anger towards her.

You probably gotta work out where the anger is directed and channel the energy into something positive, life is too short mate.
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Re: I need to know....

Postby woodublieve12 » Fri Sep 14, 2018 12:47 pm

Lightning McQueen wrote:
woodublieve12 wrote:for the blokes who have gone through separation, it's been 8 months tomorrow since it's happened... Sometimes i get a little sad about it, but most of all i get angry... i don't wanna get back with her or anything (not that theirs a chance of that and at the moment thats how i feel).

Does the anger subside? - it's not all the time but alot of the time i feel angry about it... i don't take it out on anyone else, but i feel it just bubbling under the surface..

First thing I noticed is that you mentioned "8 moths", don't think about the time etc. it only prolongs the pain.

After 13 years with my ex it ate away at me on the inside for about 4 months, then one day it just all clicked, I thought why worry about what you haven't got, worry about what you do have, you are your own destiny and the sooner you realise the word "ex", the better off you'll be.

The day I found out she was seeing someone new was a day of huge relief for me, not sure if it was because it was the same day that my dad had passed away too but it was what it was.

I don't have a lot of time for her, I don't speak ill of her around the kids but I have no anger towards her.

You probably gotta work out where the anger is directed and channel the energy into something positive, life is too short mate.


i feel like thats what i am waiting for.. i know my situation has changed but that is always in the forefront...

Great words mate i really appreciate it... It means alot
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Re: I need to know....

Postby Lightning McQueen » Fri Sep 14, 2018 1:00 pm

woodublieve12 wrote:
i feel like thats what i am waiting for.. i know my situation has changed but that is always in the forefront...

Great words mate i really appreciate it... It means alot

You probably are, it brings a sense of closure, it's human nature to still feel that you have to protect the one caring for your kids.
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Re: I need to know....

Postby HH3 » Fri Sep 14, 2018 2:19 pm

I just added Wubsys new squeeze on insta...

Is this ok?

If she accepts, he can crack it like she did when her friend messaged him.

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Re: I need to know....

Postby woodublieve12 » Fri Sep 14, 2018 2:57 pm

HH3 wrote:I just added Wubsys new squeeze on insta...

Is this ok?

If she accepts, he can crack it like she did when her friend messaged him.

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:lol:

i got a message a bout 5 minutes ago asking who you were cause i am following you :lol: :lol: :lol:

i obviously told her your a creep and must block him immediately ;)
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Re: I need to know....

Postby MW » Fri Sep 14, 2018 3:01 pm

Next step will be sliding into the DMs
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Re: I need to know....

Postby HH3 » Fri Sep 14, 2018 3:03 pm

woodublieve12 wrote:
HH3 wrote:I just added Wubsys new squeeze on insta...

Is this ok?

If she accepts, he can crack it like she did when her friend messaged him.

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:lol:

i got a message a bout 5 minutes ago asking who you were cause i am following you :lol: :lol: :lol:

i obviously told her your a creep and must block him immediately ;)


Probably a good decision.
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Re: I need to know....

Postby HH3 » Fri Sep 14, 2018 3:04 pm

MW wrote:Next step will be sliding into the DMs


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Re: I need to know....

Postby HH3 » Fri Sep 14, 2018 3:34 pm

She's left me on "read"...

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Im rescinding my follow request!!!
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Re: I need to know....

Postby woodublieve12 » Fri Sep 14, 2018 3:41 pm

HH3 wrote:She's left me on "read"...

:lol:

Im rescinding my follow request!!!

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Re: I need to know....

Postby RustyCage » Tue Sep 18, 2018 1:25 pm

Looking to have pre purchase inspection of a Toyota Prius C Hybrid. RAA have said they won’t do an inspection of it.

Does anyone know of anyone who would do an inspection of a hybrid car?
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Re: I need to know....

Postby Booney » Tue Sep 18, 2018 1:30 pm

RustyCage wrote:Looking to have pre purchase inspection of a Toyota Prius C Hybrid. RAA have said they won’t do an inspection of it.

Does anyone know of anyone who would do an inspection of a hybrid car?


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Re: I need to know....

Postby Footy Chick » Wed Sep 19, 2018 12:08 pm

Im sick of not being able to post GIFs anymore, what am I doing wrong?

Most GIFs are from giphy and i try every bloody link they give and it won't accept any of them :?
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Re: I need to know....

Postby Lightning McQueen » Wed Sep 19, 2018 12:22 pm

Footy Chick wrote:Im sick of not being able to post GIFs anymore, what am I doing wrong?

Most GIFs are from giphy and i try every bloody link they give and it won't accept any of them :?

wubsy might know......................might.
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Re: I need to know....

Postby woodublieve12 » Wed Sep 19, 2018 12:42 pm

Lightning McQueen wrote:
Footy Chick wrote:Im sick of not being able to post GIFs anymore, what am I doing wrong?

Most GIFs are from giphy and i try every bloody link they give and it won't accept any of them :?

wubsy might know......................might.


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Re: I need to know....

Postby woodublieve12 » Wed Sep 19, 2018 3:06 pm

Footy Chick wrote:Im sick of not being able to post GIFs anymore, what am I doing wrong?

Most GIFs are from giphy and i try every bloody link they give and it won't accept any of them :?


it was the same way as you'd upload an image, but lately ive noticed "copy image address" has worked
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Re: I need to know....

Postby Corona Man » Wed Sep 19, 2018 5:05 pm

Where has BennyMacca gone...... has he lost all interest now?
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Re: I need to know....

Postby Booney » Wed Sep 19, 2018 5:08 pm

Corona Man wrote:Where has BennyMacca gone...... has he lost all interest now?


New job, less access time.
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Re: I need to know....

Postby Corona Man » Wed Sep 19, 2018 5:09 pm

Booney wrote:
Corona Man wrote:Where has BennyMacca gone...... has he lost all interest now?


New job, less access time.

Ah, yep that'll do it. He'll be back.
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