daysofourlives wrote:Brodlach wrote:Dutchy wrote:Darren Jolly's IG post, thank god he has been found safe and well.
That is so sad, I hope he gets the help he needs quickly
Her, well
Disgusting what some women are allowed to still get away with these days and how courts default position is to back the woman and to hell with the rights of the father
Yep, it's all too rife, I was seeing this chick 20+ years ago and noticed she was a bit off tap, the crazy vs sexy scale was of a dangerous balance, I broke up only to discover months later she was pregnant.
She would ring my mum paro 7 months pregnant, I felt sorry and went and helped her through the remainder of the term and see what could become of it, I thought she was gonna kill herself otherwise.
The day she got out of hospital she was on the piss, it didn't take much and it was always a flip of the coin of whether I'd get the nicest person in the world or pure evil.
After having an aftershave bottle smashed over my head while I was asleep, a fork stabbed all the way into my arm and a few other things I had to leave.
She refused to let me see my son, moved around like a gypsy so I took her to family court several times at a huge cost and she never showed up on any occasion and it still worked in her favour as it kept getting adjourned.
I have tried many times to contact him with no success, it breaks my heart that someone could be so ruthless, all because it was a way that she didn't have to work, I'm sure there's been a very nasty picture painted of me, she was a habitual liar when I knew her and batshit crazy.
That was when I learnt that you can't change people, you can't be the saviour of someone who doesn't want saving, I was more resilient as a person from then on, it was a very costly lesson though, financially and there will always be a piece of me missing until I meet my son.