Things that make you sad.

Anything!

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby Psyber » Thu Jan 04, 2024 10:30 am

LaughingKookaburra wrote:
Psyber wrote:
LaughingKookaburra wrote:It’s easy to say it in hindsight, however what the hell is a 75 year old doing driving a road train? You can argue he has been through testing ect to keep his license, however biologically at 75 no one is able to make the decisions they were doing even 5-8 years earlier and by no way would they be safe enough to drive a heavy vehicle of that size for such a long distance. I’d be interested to see how common this is?

I tend to agree about the road train - I don't think I'd try that - but you can't be totally arbitrary about age.

I'm still driving my Renault Megane RS 265 at age 80. It is a 6 speed manual and does 0-100 in 6.5 seconds - faster if I switch to "race mode" but I rarely use that. My wife (aged 74) and I just recently drove a Kia Sportage diesel manual around Ireland too. And my mother-in-law is still running a yacht at the Royal Yacht Squadron at 92.

There is a lot of variation to ageing. I went to an event with my graduating year on medicine recently. I'm fit and healthy and have no current illness or disability and still have brown hair while another guy my age was bald, shaky, and in a wheel chair.


Completely understand your point and I’m not going to quiz your back ground, however you aren’t driving that car everyday 100’s of kms a day as a job - Even then it’s not the same as driving a road train (As you mentioned) . I just personally believe that no one at that age should be driving a road train long distances whilst doing shift work. Whilst you can’t prejudge, there is no way even the fittest 75 year olds are able to concentrate religiously day in, day out behind the wheel of a vehicle like that and make critical decisions continuously. It’s easy to say it now as I said, I was just genuinely shocked and I get that it’s in people’s blood.


I agree with that.
EPIGENETICS - Lamarck was right!
User avatar
Psyber
Coach
 
 
Posts: 12216
Joined: Mon Mar 13, 2006 10:43 pm
Location: Now back in the Adelaide Hills.
Has liked: 103 times
Been liked: 390 times
Grassroots Team: Hahndorf

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby Jimmy_041 » Thu Jan 04, 2024 10:42 am

dedja wrote:Just to add to this, it’s irrelevant whether the accused has cancer, whether they are rich or poor, where they live or who they live with, the only question that has to be answered is … were they fit to drive on the day of the incident.

The facts will come out if and when the accused is prosecuted; the impact to the victims should heavily outweigh any (self inflicted) impact to the accused.


Georgina McGuinness at work again?
Does he look after his sick Mum and loves his dogs?
User avatar
Jimmy_041
Coach
 
 
Posts: 14001
Joined: Sun Nov 09, 2008 5:30 pm
Has liked: 720 times
Been liked: 1072 times
Grassroots Team: Prince Alfred OC

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby MW » Thu Jan 04, 2024 6:59 pm

Pets.
Cat had cancer in the eye last year, so had the eye ball removed. All good. Now just diagnosed with another cancer on the jaw. 2 years old...
MW
Coach
 
 
Posts: 13038
Joined: Wed Nov 30, 2005 8:55 pm
Has liked: 2610 times
Been liked: 1850 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby Wedgie » Thu Jan 04, 2024 7:46 pm

MW wrote:Pets.
Cat had cancer in the eye last year, so had the eye ball removed. All good. Now just diagnosed with another cancer on the jaw. 2 years old...

Sorry to hear that mate. I'd be a wreck if our pupper went through that.
User avatar
Wedgie
Site Admin
 
 
Posts: 50936
Joined: Thu Oct 27, 2005 8:00 am
Has liked: 2050 times
Been liked: 3894 times
Grassroots Team: Noarlunga

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby MW » Thu Jan 04, 2024 8:36 pm

Wedgie wrote:
MW wrote:Pets.
Cat had cancer in the eye last year, so had the eye ball removed. All good. Now just diagnosed with another cancer on the jaw. 2 years old...

Sorry to hear that mate. I'd be a wreck if our pupper went through that.


Thanks mate. Makes it worse was that our last cat had cancer in the same spot on the jaw. What are the odds...
MW
Coach
 
 
Posts: 13038
Joined: Wed Nov 30, 2005 8:55 pm
Has liked: 2610 times
Been liked: 1850 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby Wedgie » Thu Jan 04, 2024 9:06 pm

MW wrote:
Wedgie wrote:
MW wrote:Pets.
Cat had cancer in the eye last year, so had the eye ball removed. All good. Now just diagnosed with another cancer on the jaw. 2 years old...

Sorry to hear that mate. I'd be a wreck if our pupper went through that.


Thanks mate. Makes it worse was that our last cat had cancer in the same spot on the jaw. What are the odds...

It'd awful when pets get sick :(
User avatar
Wedgie
Site Admin
 
 
Posts: 50936
Joined: Thu Oct 27, 2005 8:00 am
Has liked: 2050 times
Been liked: 3894 times
Grassroots Team: Noarlunga

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby Footy Chick » Thu Jan 04, 2024 9:47 pm

MW wrote:
Wedgie wrote:
MW wrote:Pets.
Cat had cancer in the eye last year, so had the eye ball removed. All good. Now just diagnosed with another cancer on the jaw. 2 years old...

Sorry to hear that mate. I'd be a wreck if our pupper went through that.


Thanks mate. Makes it worse was that our last cat had cancer in the same spot on the jaw. What are the odds...


Oh no, it's just not fair, is it :(
Don't play games with a girl who can play 'em better...

Gatt_Weasel wrote:if they (Walkerville) dont win the flag ill run around the block of my street naked :) you can grab a chair and enjoy the view
User avatar
Footy Chick
Moderator
 
 
Posts: 26711
Joined: Wed Nov 02, 2005 1:44 pm
Location: anywhere I want to be...
Has liked: 1738 times
Been liked: 2146 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby MW » Fri Jan 05, 2024 12:53 pm

ok some sort of good news. The cancer can be removed from the jaw, and the vet seems to think this type of cancer is not likely to spread. Doesnt answer why a cat of 2 years old would have had an eye melanoma and a masked cell cancer which are both more towards a 10 year old cat.
Anyway for a (small...) fee we get more time with him.
MW
Coach
 
 
Posts: 13038
Joined: Wed Nov 30, 2005 8:55 pm
Has liked: 2610 times
Been liked: 1850 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby dedja » Mon Jan 08, 2024 11:44 pm

Death of a police officer at Port Adelaide station, no suspicious circumstances.

It’s been a tough few weeks for SAPOL.
It is better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt
User avatar
dedja
Coach
 
 
Posts: 20253
Joined: Fri Jun 22, 2007 11:10 pm
Has liked: 178 times
Been liked: 996 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby locky801 » Tue Jan 09, 2024 1:55 am

dedja wrote:Death of a police officer at Port Adelaide station, no suspicious circumstances.

It’s been a tough few weeks for SAPOL.


Very sad and devistating news, former work partner, totally shattered, came out of left field
You cant change your past but you can sure hell shape you future
User avatar
locky801
Coach
 
Posts: 55954
Joined: Tue Aug 15, 2006 5:11 pm
Location: working all around Australia and loving it
Has liked: 3710 times
Been liked: 1170 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby amber_fluid » Tue Jan 09, 2024 7:36 am

locky801 wrote:
dedja wrote:Death of a police officer at Port Adelaide station, no suspicious circumstances.

It’s been a tough few weeks for SAPOL.


Very sad and devistating news, former work partner, totally shattered, came out of left field


Terrible news.
Sorry to hear mate.
There are no stupid questions, just stupid people.
User avatar
amber_fluid
Coach
 
 
Posts: 13452
Joined: Wed May 21, 2008 10:18 am
Has liked: 2228 times
Been liked: 2523 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby Lightning McQueen » Tue Jan 09, 2024 7:38 am

locky801 wrote:
dedja wrote:Death of a police officer at Port Adelaide station, no suspicious circumstances.

It’s been a tough few weeks for SAPOL.


Very sad and devistating news, former work partner, totally shattered, came out of left field

Sorry to hear mate
HOGG SHIELD DIVISION V WINNER 2018.
User avatar
Lightning McQueen
Coach
 
Posts: 51355
Joined: Mon Mar 03, 2008 9:43 am
Location: Radiator Springs
Has liked: 4347 times
Been liked: 7926 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby woodublieve12 » Tue Jan 09, 2024 9:15 am

I think the support police get is atrocious. The fact they have a hotline which they can only call at certain times and not a physical person in each station is a disgrace. Thoughts are with her family and friends.
"Fellas, it’s OK to be in pain. It’s OK to hurt. It’s OK to be sad. It’s no longer OK to suffer in silence."
User avatar
woodublieve12
Coach
 
 
Posts: 17251
Joined: Wed Mar 11, 2009 5:48 pm
Has liked: 3026 times
Been liked: 2401 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby dedja » Tue Jan 16, 2024 12:11 pm

Genuine question.

Is depression, mental illness, etc far more prevalent these days or is it just more out in the open and acknowledged rather than swept under the carpet?
It is better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt
User avatar
dedja
Coach
 
 
Posts: 20253
Joined: Fri Jun 22, 2007 11:10 pm
Has liked: 178 times
Been liked: 996 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby mighty_tiger_79 » Tue Jan 16, 2024 12:21 pm

dedja wrote:Genuine question.

Is depression, mental illness, etc far more prevalent these days or is it just more out in the open and acknowledged rather than swept under the carpet?

I think it's more our in the open these days
Matty Wade is a star and deserves more respect from the forum family!
User avatar
mighty_tiger_79
Coach
 
Posts: 56793
Joined: Tue Jan 03, 2006 7:29 pm
Location: at the TAB
Has liked: 11853 times
Been liked: 3601 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby Booney » Tue Jan 16, 2024 12:29 pm

dedja wrote:Genuine question.

Is depression, mental illness, etc far more prevalent these days or is it just more out in the open and acknowledged rather than swept under the carpet?


Certainly the latter and only for the better IMO.

However, only recently have I discussed the resilience the "younger" people today seem to possess, not saying there's a link between clinical depression / mental illness and intestinal fortitude but the line is sometimes blurred by those who are finding their way in the modern world. I don't envy the millenials one bit.
PAFC. Forever.

LOOK OUT, WE'RE COMING!
User avatar
Booney
Coach
 
 
Posts: 58372
Joined: Thu Oct 27, 2005 1:47 pm
Location: Alberton proud
Has liked: 7494 times
Been liked: 10781 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby dedja » Tue Jan 16, 2024 12:33 pm

That’s an interesting point.

Certainly the old days where we were all told to shut up and suck it up didn’t help, but have we gone too far the other way?

Don’t know, but the world seems much more complicated than it used to be.
It is better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt
User avatar
dedja
Coach
 
 
Posts: 20253
Joined: Fri Jun 22, 2007 11:10 pm
Has liked: 178 times
Been liked: 996 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby Booney » Tue Jan 16, 2024 12:37 pm

dedja wrote:That’s an interesting point.

Certainly the old days where we were all told to shut up and suck it up didn’t help, but have we gone too far the other way?

Don’t know, but the world seems much more complicated than it used to be.


IMO opinion no, we haven't, the severity of the root causes has though I think.

Be open and honest and talk to people when you're struggling, if the cafe is out of almond milk just get on with it.

Absolutely it is. Imagine being 23, trying to save for a house, find a life partner, navigating the social landscape? No thanks.
PAFC. Forever.

LOOK OUT, WE'RE COMING!
User avatar
Booney
Coach
 
 
Posts: 58372
Joined: Thu Oct 27, 2005 1:47 pm
Location: Alberton proud
Has liked: 7494 times
Been liked: 10781 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby dedja » Tue Jan 16, 2024 12:42 pm

Booney wrote:
dedja wrote:That’s an interesting point.

Certainly the old days where we were all told to shut up and suck it up didn’t help, but have we gone too far the other way?

Don’t know, but the world seems much more complicated than it used to be.


IMO opinion no, we haven't, the severity of the root causes has though I think.

Be open and honest and talk to people when you're struggling, if the cafe is out of almond milk just get on with it.

Absolutely it is. Imagine being 23, trying to save for a house, find a life partner, navigating the social landscape? No thanks.


Tell me about it, I’ve got 3 daughters in their 20s.
It is better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt
User avatar
dedja
Coach
 
 
Posts: 20253
Joined: Fri Jun 22, 2007 11:10 pm
Has liked: 178 times
Been liked: 996 times

Re: Things that make you sad.

Postby Jimmy_041 » Tue Jan 16, 2024 12:58 pm

Its good that people are talking about their issues

It's the aggressive war on gender that pi$$es me off
User avatar
Jimmy_041
Coach
 
 
Posts: 14001
Joined: Sun Nov 09, 2008 5:30 pm
Has liked: 720 times
Been liked: 1072 times
Grassroots Team: Prince Alfred OC

PreviousNext

Board index   General Talk  General Discussion

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 43 guests

Around the place

Competitions   SANFL Official Site | Country Footy SA | Southern Football League | VFL Footy
Club Forums   Snouts Louts | The Roost | Redlegs Forum |