Interesting little story this one.
I dont think Singo would be the easiest bloke to deal with, as demonstrated by his little dummy spit on Saturday, but hey, it's his horse so he should be told everything.
On the other hand, if there isnt anything to tell.....then there is nothing to tell.
How much does it get under your skin when Tom refers to Gai as Mum in public? Sure, I know she is his Mum, but be professional enough to know when Mum is Mum and Mum is Gai.