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Re: Things that make you sad.

PostPosted: Thu Apr 18, 2024 1:04 pm
by heater31
The Bedge wrote:Before commentary after he retired, didn't he have issues with mental health back then? Outburst and drinking dependency?
Goes back as far as the 2001 Ashes when he was dropped from the side.

Re: Things that make you sad.

PostPosted: Fri May 03, 2024 3:44 pm
by Spargo
Those poor Bonza Airline workers not getting paid for the month of April, that’s f#cked…

Re: Things that make you sad.

PostPosted: Fri May 03, 2024 3:52 pm
by Dutchy
Spargo wrote:Those poor Bonza Airline workers not getting paid for the month of April, that’s f#cked…


They will get paid, eventually

Re: Things that make you sad.

PostPosted: Fri May 10, 2024 5:01 pm
by Footy Chick
Saying goodbye to my kitty last week. :cry:

She was 21 - older than some of your kids and had her since she was a kitten.

To say I'm not functioning well right now is an understatement.

Re: Things that make you sad.

PostPosted: Mon May 20, 2024 2:17 pm
by dedja
The inevitable decline of elderly parents

Re: Things that make you sad.

PostPosted: Thu May 23, 2024 9:42 am
by dedja
Funeral and wake today for a mate of 35 years.

Re: Things that make you sad.

PostPosted: Mon May 27, 2024 6:56 pm
by Dutchy
Grayson Murray :(

Re: Things that make you sad.

PostPosted: Tue May 28, 2024 8:52 am
by Booney
Dutchy wrote:Grayson Murray :(


Watching him finish the 16th and walk off is some gut wrenching vision.

Re: Things that make you sad.

PostPosted: Tue May 28, 2024 10:57 am
by Dutchy
Booney wrote:
Dutchy wrote:Grayson Murray :(


Watching him finish the 16th and walk off is some gut wrenching vision.


Yep, watched his win in January live and thought the post round questioning from the media about his struggles was way over the top, he just had his biggest win of his career and they all wanted to focus on the past cause its a good story line. Im not sure the media helped here.

Re: Things that make you sad.

PostPosted: Tue May 28, 2024 11:35 am
by Lightning McQueen
Dutchy wrote:Grayson Murray :(

Absolutely no one has immunity from these situations, it can hit anyone at any time, when Robin Williams passed away I realised that it can happen to anyone, he was the funniest man on earth.

I too have struggled over time, even last year I felt at times that I merely just existed and had no care for life or interest in hanging about, I started up smoking durries again and would drink myself into a stupor on a school night kinda hoping I wouldn’t wake up.

I couldn’t do the deed intentionally as I didn’t want my kids to have to live with that, I really gave no f***’s though.

Fortunately they were seeing something and they made me do fortnightly dinners for us all so we could all catch up, it all stemmed from working at a shit hole with a very toxic environment.

I know what it’s like to hide behind my demons and deflect negative thought with humour or stupidity.

RUOK Day should be every day, it means f*** all when you’re only asked because of a gimmick.

Re: Things that make you sad.

PostPosted: Tue May 28, 2024 11:39 am
by wenchbarwer
Lightning McQueen wrote:RUOK Day should be every day, it means f*** all when you’re only asked because of a gimmick.


Absolutely this. I'll go out of my way to avoid being involved in RUOK day as it seems like such a cliche.
it's the other 364 days on the calendar when people should be checking in.

Re: Things that make you sad.

PostPosted: Tue May 28, 2024 11:55 am
by MW
You don't get the everyday awareness without these annual days though, so try not to avoid them and embrace them.

Re: Things that make you sad.

PostPosted: Tue May 28, 2024 1:02 pm
by Dutchy
Lightning McQueen wrote:
Dutchy wrote:Grayson Murray :(

Absolutely no one has immunity from these situations, it can hit anyone at any time, when Robin Williams passed away I realised that it can happen to anyone, he was the funniest man on earth.

I too have struggled over time, even last year I felt at times that I merely just existed and had no care for life or interest in hanging about, I started up smoking durries again and would drink myself into a stupor on a school night kinda hoping I wouldn’t wake up.

I couldn’t do the deed intentionally as I didn’t want my kids to have to live with that, I really gave no f***’s though.

Fortunately they were seeing something and they made me do fortnightly dinners for us all so we could all catch up, it all stemmed from working at a shit hole with a very toxic environment.

I know what it’s like to hide behind my demons and deflect negative thought with humour or stupidity.

RUOK Day should be every day, it means f*** all when you’re only asked because of a gimmick.


Yep confirms it doesn't discriminate and agree with RUOK day, it creates some awareness and overall it is probably good, but checking in with someone 1 day a year is never going to be good enough.

Re: Things that make you sad.

PostPosted: Wed Jun 05, 2024 11:14 am
by dedja
https://www.adelaidenow.com.au/truecrim ... 124389ebf0


Dhirren Singh Randhawa pleads guilty to killing Charlie Stevens by careless, not dangerous, driving


Police Commissioner Grant Stevens fought back tears, clutching an apology letter from his son’s killer after the young driver pleaded to a lesser charge for the Schoolies tragedy.

The young driver who ran down Charlie Stevens has pleaded guilty to killing him by careless, rather than dangerous, driving – but may still go to jail because he fled the scene of the impact.
In the Adelaide Magistrates Court on Wednesday, Dhirren Singh Randhawa pleaded guilty to one aggravated count of driving without due care.

The circumstance of aggravation is that Charlie – son of SA Police Commissioner Grant Stevens – died as a result of his carelessness behind the wheel.

Randhawa’s guilty plea to that charge, and also to having left the scene of a crash after causing death, were accepted by prosecutors after months of out-of-court negotiations.

The Advertiser understands long-delayed reports about the night of the collision, including crash reconstruction and toxicology analysis, were highly relevant to those negotiations.

Commissioner Stevens and his family were present, in the court’s public gallery, for the hearing and for the entering of Randhawa’s pleas.

Outside court, he became visibly emotional while holding an envelope, which he revealed was a letter of apology from Randhawa.

“This is one step in the process, there are a few more steps to go so I think it would be appropriate for us to say more at a later point in time,” he said.

“I think on behalf of our family we would just like to acknowledge that Dhirren has taken responsibility for his actions that saw us lose our son Charlie.

“We have also been handed a letter of apology so we will take time to read that.”

Under state law, Randhawa now faces a maximum 12-month prison term and minimum six-month licence disqualification for the careless driving offence.

That represents a 93 per cent reduction in penalty from causing death by dangerous driving, which carries a maximum 15-year sentence and 10-year driving ban.

However, Randhawa will be sentenced in the District Court rather than Magistrates Court, and still faces the prosect of serving his sentence in custody.

That is because the penalty for leaving an accident scene after causing death is a five-year prison term – placing it beyond the jurisdiction of the lower court.

Following the crash on Beach Rd, Goolwa, last year, Randhawa, 18, of Encounter Bay, was charged with causing death by dangerous driving.

He was further charged with the lesser, alternative offence of aggravated driving without due care, leaving the scene of a crash after causing death and failing to truly answer questions.

Previously, the court heard there were conflicting witness accounts of the incident and imposed bans on him contacting all but one of those people.

Amid the delayed expert reports, prosecutors confirmed they would be pursuing the charges as laid while defence counsel told the court negotiations had begun.

In court on Tuesday, Director of Puplic Prosecutions Martin Hinton KC said Randhawa’s two pleas would be accepted in full satisfaction of the charges.

Asked for his pleas to each count, Randhawa replied “guilty, Your Honour”.

Mr Hinton then formally withdrew the charge of causing death by dangerous driving.

Randhawa was remanded on continuing bail to face the District Court in August, when a date for sentencing submissions will be set.