Lightning McQueen wrote:1997 I went out with someone for a little while and later found that she was pregnant.
I tried to help her out once I knew she was pregnant and then beyond, it wasn't a good thing.
I tried for years to go through family court but it cost me a fortune and she never showed up, and I never got to see my son.
I found him on FB about 8 years ago and sent him a message once he turned 18 but to no avail.
He replied this morning wanting to connect.
I basically cannot even function right now, he is doing well for himself and is self employed, I'm a f****** mess.
A bit of an update for anyone that gives a toss.
Caught up with my son a few times but then he moved to Melbourne for work.
He had a bit of a health scare over there and had to move back a few weeks ago to find a diagnosis.
All is well and he has been cleared but he wants to work in a different field.
He is having an interview tomorrow at my place of work.
It's been one hell of a year, just thinking about the extra seat at the Christmas Dinner table makes my whole family a little teary.