by woodublieve12 » Wed Feb 06, 2019 3:25 pm
Quick run down.
Going to Bali friday for a week, had a plan with ex that i will drop the girls to her at work because there is no need for the girls to come to the airport... Kids get upset with their mum about not going to the airport, even though they have been fine with me. She then caves and goes on to tell me, that she will bring the girls to the Airport and chill with us and the girls before we fly. Which i personally can't think of anything worse (not the kids being there but her)...
What shits me off the most, i was guilted into this and made to feel like a jerk if i said no... Which isn't the first time. I don't think the girls need to be there and they will be at the airport when i get home. I can give the necessary hugs and kisses at her work...
It just seems every time the kids get sad about a situation she gives them what they want... I am not saying i'd love to have them at the airport, i would but we had a plan and the girls don't need to come all the way down there to be sad. And plus i really don't want my ex there...
"Fellas, it’s OK to be in pain. It’s OK to hurt. It’s OK to be sad. It’s no longer OK to suffer in silence."