Footy Chick wrote:Lightning McQueen wrote:woodublieve12 wrote:
this
and I am the same I would be very grateful
Expect nothing and you'll never be disappointed.
You're damned if you do and damned if you don't.
You won't get a thank you for last minute changes that help her but at the same time,
if you dare say no you'll cop wrath.
Just take it, and keep a note of every time it happens.
yep
for example she is planning a trip to London later this year... Hasn't booked but has confirmed with her sister she is going... I have no issue (just filthy I can't go to London), just thought you'd run it past just to see if id be ok to have the kids for that period.. Again zero issue having kids, just assumed its what you do in this situation... Remember this is a 10-14 day trip...
I mentioned the other day I was thinking about going to that big wrestling show, this is how it went down -
Me - I am thinking about going to Melbourne for that wwe show, its oct 6. I don't have the girls the Friday or Saturday (got cut off)
ex - Youd be back before I start work right???
me - id plan to..
ex - well id hope so cause youll need to organise something...
me - excuse me??? well clearly...
ex - do you think its a good time to go away? *tone in voice*
me - 1. I haven't even said I am going yet. 2. Pretty hypercritical of the person going away for a fortnight later this year...
ex - *crickets*
ex - oh ahhh umm ok... I am sure we can organise something...
me -